The Egocentric self (stage 0-2) Birth to 12-16
The self consists of needs, interests, wishes, impulses an perceptions, but does not truly have a shared reality with others.
Interpersonal of Socialized Self (stage 3)
Most humans make it to this stage in which we find a role in the larger society and identify with that role.
Independent Self (Stage 4)
Only 25% of humans in our culture successfully make this transition. The person can no longer ignore or distort the call of the soul. They realize that walking their own path may disappoint others, risk failure or violate accepted norms that seem to make the socialized self valued. They feel whole and complete.
Integral or Interindividual Self (Stage 5)
One percent of adults reach this stage. Here, the internal awareness that "I am whole and complete" of Stage 4 gives way to "I am not whole and complete...I am many selves" People here can easily make constructive judgments of themselves.
Sacred Self (Stage 6)
This seldom if ever develops without a long-term practice. "I am not the body, nor the mind." The human identifies with the soul that is in common union with the divine. This is the birthplace of universe compassion.
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